GAY SEXUALITY AND HEALING
THE EARTH
By James Thornton and Martin
Boroson
Would the social acceptance
of gay sexuality help humans live sustainably upon the Earth? We write
in what is still a young field. Relatively little has been written about
why Western Europe, which valued homosexuality into the fourteenth century,
became hostile to it, and what all this may have to do with environmental
problems.
Rather than making an argument,
we offer a meditation. It will follow a series of associations from Greece
through the Renaissance, from the experience of American Indians to that
of tobacco company executives.
What emerges is the thought
that there was a deep shift in the consciousness of Western Europe that
began in the late Middle Ages, and has continued into our own culture.
It is a shift that has allowed both the despoilation of the Earth and
the repression of gay people. The shift involves valuing reason above
wisdom, the abstract above the embodied, the quantified above the intuited,
the archetypally masculine above the archetypally feminine.
The Acceptance of Homosexual
Behavior in Premodern Europe
The connection between environmental
problems and the repression of gay people, women, and native peoples is
strong, and has only recently become visible. We focus in this article
on the experience of gay people, but we are aware that complementary lines
of analysis, focusing on the experience of other repressed groups, are
needed for a view of the whole.
Most people today, including
most gay people, assume that the gay rights movement is asking for something
new, when it asks for equal treatment. It isn't. In most non-Western cultures,
and in Premodern Europe, homosexual behavior was considered completely
normal, and was publicly and openly accepted. (1)
The modern Western mind is
deeply homophobic. We have conditioned ourselves to think of homosexuality
as a "perversion," a "crime against nature", and incompatible with essential
social roles such as military service and teaching children. Liberals
are tolerant of gay people. But gay people often feel that even liberals
still consider them marginal players on life's stage. And most gay people
have overheard a liberal privately admit to disgust at homosexual behavior.
Gay people too have internalized homophobia in a way that is one of the
great challenges to full psychological integration in each gay person's
life.
From this perspective of deeply
ingrained homophobia, it becomes difficult to appreciate that it was not
always so. Homosexuality was idealized in the ancient world as the natural
sexual preference for the macho male. Alexander the Great, hardly a sissy,
openly had a male as his principal consort. (2) The same is true of the
Roman Emperor Hadrian, one of Rome's greatest generals, and one of the
so-called Five Great Emperors. (3) The military genius Julius Caesar was
known in Rome as "every man's wife and every woman's husband." (4)
This association between being
a warrior and homosexual love was institutionalized in Sparta, the most
military of the Greek city states. In Sparta, it was expected that a soldier
have a male lover. (5) Perhaps the most admired military organization
in the Greek world was the Sacred Band of Thebes. It was formed exclusively
of pairs of male lovers, under the theory proposed by Plato that a man
fighting at the side of his lover would be the most valiant of warriors.
The Sacred Band went undefeated until the massacre of the Greeks at Chaeronea
by Philip of Macedon, father of Alexander the Great. (6)
But it was not just in the
martial culture of Greece and Rome that homosexuality was accepted. Ordinary
Greek and Roman citizens openly included homosexual behavior in their
repertoire of experience. Marriages in the ancient world were in large
part arrangements for the inheritance of property. (7) It was assumed
that men would have another relationship for romantic love--and frequently
these relationships were with other men. Men often had both a wife and
a male lover. Plato was among these. (8)
Ancient Europe was not simply
tolerant of the sexual preferences of emperors and great talents. Difficult
as it is for us to understand it, given our cultural context, homosexuality
was not stigmatized, and it was often idealized, in the ancient world.
It is well established, for example, that among Romans, same-sex marriages
were both legal, and popular. Some ancient writers argued that a homosexual
relationship was likely to be more stable than a heterosexual one. (9)
Even if we are willing to
believe that ancient European society had a different view of homosexual
behavior, it seems comfortably remote, millennia away, from the entrenched
prejudices of our time. What is stunning to realize is that homosexual
conduct was considered normal in Europe down through the Middle Ages.
A seminal new book by Yale historian John Boswell, Same-sex Unions
in Premodern Europe, is helpful here. Boswell has carefully gone through
Church records across Europe, and found that what he calls same-sex unions
were commonplace down through the Middle Ages. Not only that, they were
sanctified in the Catholic Church.
Boswell has turned up Church
manuscripts in libraries across Europe containing ceremonies that solemnize
same-sex unions. These ceremonies are precisely parallel to the Catholic
heterosexual marriage ceremonies of the time in all important particulars,
and like the heterosexual ceremonies were attended by friends and family,
and celebrated with banquets. (10)
Boswell's work is brilliant,
and will be controversial. The New York Times, for example, published
an article opining that even though same-sex partners promised to live
together, to be faithful to each other until death, and so on, perhaps
the ceremonies were just a friendly pastime, something that medieval men
enjoyed doing with their pals, not their lovers. It is difficult to see
a different reality through the lens of five hundred years of blinding
prejudice.
Imprisoned in the Keep of
Reason
Boswell observes that:
From the fourteenth century
on, Western Europe was gripped by a rabid and obsessive negative preoccupation
with homosexuality as the most horrible of sins. The reasons for this
have never been adequately explained. (11)
How could homosexuality have
gone from something considered part of life, to be celebrated and consecrated
like the rest of life, to a criminal offense for which one could be hanged,
the offense so unspeakably foul that it became known as the "vice that
cannot speak its name"?
One might have thought that
so profound a shift in human experience would have interested historians.
That it has not done so until very recently is a sign of the outcast status
of homosexuals since the fourteenth century. But what happened? Whence
this dramatic shift? What has shifted in our culture during the last six
hundred years that would lead to the extreme social stigmatization of
homosexual behavior? No satisfactory answers have yet been offered, as
Boswell comments.
We would like to offer what
we believe are some seeds of an answer. We need to look to a deep shift
in the consensus mind of Europe. It is a shift that began to find expression
in the thirteenth century, came to the fore in the high Renaissance, and
has become entirely dominant in our time. When we look into this deep
shift, we can ask whether the repression of gays, and our environmental
problems arise from the same root.
So what happened? We fell in
love--blind, unbalanced, mad love--with Reason, and did not look to the
consequences.
We are schooled to think of
the Renaissance as a time of liberation from superstition and prejudice.
Science, art and humanism flourished, and a corrupt Catholic Church lost
some of its influence. In Goya's phrase, "the sleep of Reason produces
monsters." We are taught that reason triumphed over darkness in the Renaissance,
and that we have been marching forward, in reason's light, ever since.
But the light of reason also casts shadows, whose darkness is proportional
to reason's light. Has our culture looked into those shadows?
We suggest that our infatuation
with reason has also produced monsters, among them the repression of gay
people, and a potential ecocatastrophe. In what follows, we wish to look
into the psychological shadow of reason's triumph. We will focus first
on the rise of the scientific method and the rise of capitalism.
Roger Bacon, a pioneer of the
scientific method, was writing in Oxford by the mid-thirteenth century
that there was a new way to know the natural world. One needs an experimental
method, he argued, and one needs to apply mathematics in the understanding
of all physical processes. Bacon was a pioneer, and ahead of his time.
(12) His dream was to fully flower in the seventeenth century with Newton's
celestial mechanics. Descartes' abstraction from experience are a natural
complement.
Bacon argued lucidly for the
primacy of the quantitative, rational mind by the mid-thirteenth century.
The methods he began to champion have largely been the methods of Western
science ever since. As experience with the scientific method has grown,
the language of its inquiry has become ever more mathematical. The scientific
method requires systematic quantification, and whatever is unquantifiable
becomes invisible to the mind doing science.
Science seeks to remove ambiguity,
to achieve a repeatable clarity. For the mind engaged in scientific inquiry,
paradox is anathema. Much of quantum physics, for example, is devoted
to analyzing a handful of paradoxes that inhere in quantum theory. Whatever
cannot be fit within the contours of the system, must be explained away
or pushed aside. It is this relentless quality of the scientific mind,
that paradox must be destroyed by explanation or otherwise, that we will
return to shortly.
While the scientific mind
was being born, and was developing its rigorously quantified approach
to the world, capitalism was also being born. Like the scientific method,
capitalism brought about abstraction and quantification, this time in
the realm of human relationship.
Until the rise of capitalism,
human life was largely experienced as a set of relationships that were
long and enduring. In Europe, there were complex and well understood reciprocal
relationships between landowners and peasants. These relationships were
centered on the production of agricultural commodities. And while there
was always a class of artists and artisans serving the noble's courts,
the professions within this class were largely hereditary as well. Unlike
the modern world, one did not have a profession, and draw a salary, as
the central experience defining one's place in the world. There was nothing
so abstract as that--it was all a matter of the web of relationships and
what they allowed and demanded.
This system of relationships
was changed dramatically as capitalism rose. An important step was the
beginning of large scale banking in Northern Italy during the 12th and
13th centuries. (13) Florentine bankers began to take deposits, and to
lend on credit. Money became abstracted from the physical gold or silver
that it had been before. With the later use of letters of credit, it became
possible to trade safely over long distances. Banking became complex to
deal with the newly created abstraction of wealth. (14) By the mid-fifteen
hundreds, the corporation appears as an entity designed for the sole purpose
of limiting investors' liability, as they invested their wealth. Risky
enterprises could then be safely engaged in for the first time, since
potential loss was restricted to the assets of the corporation, and one's
personal worth was secure. One could undertake risky enterprises that
would not have been possible in the earlier world of relationship, in
which one was responsible for the outcomes of one's behavior.
The abstraction of wealth,
led to a quantification in human relationships that parallels the quantification
in the view of the world taking place at the same time in science. Whereas
the world had been full of gods, science said that what could not be measured
could not be real. Whereas the human world had been based on relationship,
it came to be based on one's quantifiable productivity within a corporation.
The grammar of reason is written
in numbers, and its poetry is mathematics. Western culture fell more and
more deeply in love with reason as time went on. The affair deepened through
the Enlightenment and reached an apex, perhaps, in the nuclear enterprise
of our own century, in which defense policy was spoken of in terms of
throw weights, and humans became the number of casualties per megaton.
What is the shadow side of
reason? What monsters does it bring forth? What have we left out of our
calculations?
The main danger of an exclusive
reliance on reason is to mistake the map for the territory. What can be
quantified is taken for what is real. In a tragic fallacy, the mind bound
by reason then draws the conclusion that only what can be quantified is
real. What cannot be counted is therefor dismissed as unreal. For the
mind bound by the analytic confines of reason, therefore, the entire realm
of spirit is seen as superstition; love is a matter of endocrines and
pheromones; ancient forests have no value except as board feet of timber;
and the work of housewives does not appear as an asset in our economy.
The Healing Power of Paradox
Life, of course, is beyond
reason. Not without reason, beyond it. Life is inherently paradoxical,
as zen masters have always loved to point out. Jung said it too:
Oddly enough the paradox is
one of our most valuable spiritual possessions, while uniformity of meaning
is a sign of weakness. Hence a religion becomes inwardly impoverished
when it loses or waters down its paradoxes; but their multiplication enriches
because only the paradox comes anywhere near to comprehending the fullness
of life. Non-ambiguity and non-contradiction are one-sided and thus unsuited
to express the incomprehensible. (15)
The rational mind detests paradox,
and will act relentlessly to resolve or extirpate it. This is neither
good nor bad, simply a function of the rational mind, which strives to
make things one-sided.
Roger Bacon's work is emblematic
of a deep cultural shift toward valuing the quantitatively comprehensible.
This shift might have happened in a balanced way. Instead of being rational
about reason, though, we began a love affair with the rational mind in
the thirteenth and fourteenth centuries that led to the tragic error of
thinking that the only mind worth inhabiting is the rational mind. Our
mistake has not been to cultivate the rational mind, but to cultivate
it to the exclusion of other ways of seeing.
Because it seems to confuse
gender choice, homosexuality is inherently paradoxical, and unsettles
the rational mind. But therein lies its potential healing power for a
culture overly identified with the rational. It was precisely homosexuality's
paradoxical nature that many American Indian tribes enjoyed.
Many American Indian tribes
allowed a third-gender role. The name given these people by anthropologists
was berdache, although each tribe would have had its own name. If a boy
began to show some feminine behavior, he was tested. If he chose a woman's
role, he then started using the feminine form of language, was referred
to as "she," wore women's clothing and did women's work. (16)
The berdaches were highly valued
by the tribe. Because they embodied elements of both the masculine and
feminine, they were thought to be especially close to the divine, and
were often asked to mediate disputes between men and women. They were
often reared to be a tribal shaman or healer. In tribal groups using a
communal child care arrangement, people often considered it a privilege
to have their children raised by a berdache.
A berdache would generally
marry a man, who was in no way considered a berdache. This social arrangement
is not within our modern means of conceiving gender. It was acceptable
for a "biological and social" man to marry a berdache because the berdache
was not considered a "man;" his gender was feminine.
It would be easy for the modern,
anxious heterosexual mind to regard the man who married a berdache as
an aberration. But that was not the case. Often many men in the tribe
would compete for the honor of marrying a berdache. And ordinary men in
the tribes enjoyed having sex with a berdache.
In our terms, the men in these
cultures were actively bisexual. What seems to have been important among
them was not that a "man" partner with a "woman" but that the masculine
principle partner with the feminine principle. This suggests that our
need for a psychological opposite is stronger than our need for a biological
opposite. One could also wonder from this scenario whether most people
are bisexual and some people are gay: everyone is capable of erotic desire
for the same sex, but some people are specially "called" to fulfill a
special role, outside of the bisexuality of the group, much like a priest
might be called to serve a special role in the community.
In American Indian tribes,
berdaches were both revered and made fun of. They would be lovingly teased,
and would in turn tease, and flirt with, other people. The tribes had
institutionalized, in the role of the berdache, a sacred oddness, a sacred
weirdness, a sacred queerness. This role allowed the berdache to embody
an important psychic function.
There has always been a trickster.
Archetypally, according to Jung, we each have within us the force that
creates accidents or surprises to bring us toward healing. In many cultures
this archetype has been institutionalized into the role of court jester
or trickster. A trickster is mercurial: he teases, flirts, confuses, subverts,
makes you laugh, and makes you realize that your ego is a construct, and
perhaps a fatuous one. The job of the trickster is to help you to step
off the deadly clear path laid down by your defended ego. One hopes to
respond in good humor. If he is ignored, the trickster may work strong
tricks.
Gay people naturally have a
trickster aspect. By the nature of gay sexuality, in whatever form it
appears, it threatens the absolute equation between masculine and man
and between feminine and woman. The job of the trickster is a sacred job,
since having one's boundaries threatened in a safe way is an opportunity
for spiritual experience. Because it is so easy to take our ego identity
as real, rather than as a useful, changeable construct, we need reminders
that we are not who we seem to be.
This is particularly so for
the person we would ordinarily think of as the oppressor: the straight
white man who runs a company that engages in wholesale natural resource
extraction, manufactures cigarettes, and so on. From a perspective of
psychological growth and wholeness, such a man is stunted, constrained,
and rigid. He is living reason's limitations.
Martyrs to Reason
While we were writing this
article, Congressional attention has focused on the American tobacco companies.
The executives of the major cigarette producers appeared before Congressional
panels, denying that nicotine is addictive, or that smoking causes cancer.
Seeing them testify, one saw martyrs to the dark side of Reason. Constrained,
rigid, their minds and hearts closed, one can easily feel their pain,
and sense it is likely to express itself in their lives in alcoholism,
depression, heart attacks, and the other sequelae of reason's hegemony.
Let us look into the pain of
the tobacco company executives, pain which they may not feel consciously.
It is psychically difficult for a man identified with patriarchal values
to recognize the external costs of our way of life. To do so is to experience
the suffering of others--both other humans and other species--in a profound
way. To experience this identification with the pain of others caused
by our actions is to become culturally allied with feminine values. Any
straight male whose ego-identity rests on the patriarchal value structure
will be threatened by the uprush of feminine modes of perception within
him, as he allows himself to live the feelings that compassion brings.
The fear of the tobacco company
executive to acknowledge that cigarettes addict and kill is a fear of
the feminine. And though experiencing the inner feminine need not lead
a man into bisexuality, a male ego overly identified with the masculine
can easily fear that it will. Such a man may feel that deeply embracing
the feminine within will bring ego annihilation.
It is a potent challenge to
a heavily defended straight man's masculinity that another man allows
himself to experience the internal feminine. Such a man may allow himself
to experience his own desire for emotional or erotic friendship with other
men. To keep the flood of emotion at bay, a heavily defended straight
man must keep all reminders of the inner feminine away. He will put up
walls of Reason, and thereby keep his own consciousness in prison. He
will also imprison and perhaps execute those in the world who deviate
from his norm, and who thereby remind him of his imprisonment.
Greater integration of women
and gay people in the culture as full equals and participants would immediately
begin to open up the culture to models of plurality and diversity. This
in turn makes it harder to hold the constricted view needed for the continued
despoilation of the Earth. Put simply, a whole man, open to intuition
and compassion, could not run one of today's tobacco companies.
Embodying the Reconciliation
In his valuable new book Blossom
of Bone, Randy Conners notes that the appearance of gay men in a socially
approved shamanic role has almost always happened in cultures in which
the Goddess held a central place in the religion. He speculates that as
society began to exclude gay people from playing a sacred role arising
from their sexuality, this spiritual impulse was sublimated into artistic
creation. (17)
There is a strong association
between spirit and the masculine principle, and nature and the feminine
principle. Many have commented that the ultimate source of our ecological
problems is the split in our culture between spirit and nature, masculine
and feminine. Our inability to reconcile these principles is reflected
in our inability to tolerate the existence of people who embody the reconciliation.
The Healing of the Earth
and the Expression of Gay Sexuality
We have covered much ground.
Our central notion is that both the repression of gay sexuality and our
environmental problems share a common root. We are suggesting that as
a culture we must abandon the Keep of Reason, recognizing that it has
become our prison, and march out into the vaster expanses of heart and
mind. In this way, reason can become the servant of wisdom and love.
We need to recognize the pain
and the fear of those who are still inside Reason's Keep. As the world's
problems worsen, they will want to rely even more reflexively on a narrow
and bounded reason, with potentially devastating effects. We need to experience
their suffering with compassion if we are to help them leave their defenses.
It is easy to think of those who abuse power as enemies, whether they
repress people or despoil the Earth. But change will come more quickly
and softly if we can appreciate the pain in such people, and the fear
they have of opening their hearts to feel the full consequences of their
actions.
We are not suggesting a retreat
into an imagined Golden Age. Everything that has led us to this point
in history has prepared us to begin making a deeper synthesis of human
gifts than has yet been possible. The environmental crisis is a call to
a more holistic approach to human life. Gay people, and the other groups
that have been repressed, have much to offer in this effort.
The more richly pluralistic
human experience that would result form welcoming gay people into our
culture as full participants would make it more difficult to maintain
the heart-hardened view needed to continue the despoilation of the Earth.
The consciousness of our culture must change if we are to live sustainably
upon the Earth. Equal treatment for gay people would contribute to that
change of consciousness in a powerful way.
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